Couple tattoos and what to consider before getting inked

Getting a couple tattoo can be a beautiful and bold way to celebrate a relationship—but it’s also one of the most common types of tattoos I get asked to cover up. As a tattoo artist, I’ve seen both sides of the story: the meaningful designs that still make clients smile years later, and the “what was I thinking?” pieces that end up getting reworked, lasered, or covered altogether. The good news? With a little thought and intention, you can avoid becoming the latter and end up with a tattoo you genuinely love—no matter what the future holds.

The first thing I always recommend is to avoid tattooing names. I know it feels romantic, but names are one of the most frequently covered elements in tattoo history. Instead, consider symbols or artwork that represent your connection. Think shared imagery like two halves of a whole, matching florals, or a meaningful object or quote you both resonate with. The goal is to pick something that still holds personal value even if your relationship status ever shifts.

Another smart approach is to choose a design that stands strong on its own. The best couple tattoos look beautiful together, but aren’t dependent on the other to make sense. That way, if things change down the road, you’re left with a tattoo you still love—not something that needs immediate hiding. It’s all about balance: connected but independent, just like a healthy relationship.

It’s also important not to rush into the idea. While a spontaneous matching tattoo might feel exciting in the moment, take time to sit with the decision. Ask yourself if this is a design you’d still want even if things didn’t go as planned. Schedule a consultation with your artist, talk through ideas, and give yourself room to change your mind. A good tattoo should be timeless, not just tied to a specific moment of emotion.

Placement matters, too. While it might seem cute to get something on your wrist or hand, visible tattoos are permanent conversations—and not always ones you’ll want to have. More subtle placements, like the ribs, inner arm, or ankle, offer a little privacy while still letting you carry that meaning with you. It’s something to think about, especially if the design is very couple-specific.

Lastly, and maybe most importantly, work with an artist who listens. Someone who isn’t just trying to get you in and out of the chair, but who genuinely cares that you’re happy with your tattoo years from now. A good artist will help guide your design, point out things that might not age well, and make sure the tattoo tells your story in the best way possible.

At the end of the day, your tattoo should bring you joy—not regret. And if you’re reading this after already getting a couple tattoo that no longer serves you, know that cover-ups can be powerful too. I’ve helped plenty of people transform their old tattoos into something new, beautiful, and completely their own.

Ready to create something meaningful with your partner—or give new life to a tattoo you’ve outgrown?
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